Been faced with a bit of confrontation lately regarding plans. What are mine? Marriage? Kids? It gets really hard to answer that question sometimes!! It's not a matter of simply saying "Yes or No" to wanting children. The answer lies in love. Always in love. A recent fling told me that unconditional love matters more than anything in the world and that he lives his life by that. He tries to give without getting. Maybe I'm too skeptical for all that. I don't know. I always look at my relationships with people sociologically speaking where relationships on any level only exist if each party is getting something.
The whole idea of unconditional love is completely foreign to me. How do you just love?How do you learn to do that? How can someone so easily forgive and forget in order to love someone unconditionally?? If everyday I love a homeless beggar in the streets enough to give him everything in my pocket and then he becomes ungrateful one day that the $$ isn't as much as the day before, how do I love them so much that it doesn't hinder my thoughts/actions with that situation from that point on??
Question: Are some of us more wired to love and others to be guarded?? Is it only experience-based??
The whole idea of unconditional love is completely foreign to me. How do you just love?How do you learn to do that? How can someone so easily forgive and forget in order to love someone unconditionally?? If everyday I love a homeless beggar in the streets enough to give him everything in my pocket and then he becomes ungrateful one day that the $$ isn't as much as the day before, how do I love them so much that it doesn't hinder my thoughts/actions with that situation from that point on??
Question: Are some of us more wired to love and others to be guarded?? Is it only experience-based??
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