Don't ask questions you don't want the answer to.
I can't stand it when people ask me something requiring honesty when we both know that the answer is going to be negative. Really here's the thing, I am abrupt and brutally honest even when I try to play nice. That being said, if you know you won't like what I have to say, don't then throw some angry/hurt/upset emotion at me cuz I'm just gonna be like..."you asked." So here's the deal...recently just started talking to an old flame; someone I know there's chemistry with. I went into that whole-heartedly with good intentions. What I found though was an incredibly immature, insecure, clingy type who was either "talking out his ass" as he would put it or just trying to tell me what he thought I'd want to hear. And here's what I say unto you: 1) I have always been a free bird and you knew this. 2) I have not shattered your little heart or at least have not given you enough of a reason to behave like a highschool emo female so stop 3)Stop wearing your heart on your sleeve with all this "I just want someone to want me" crap. No one is falling for it. 4) Take a look at yourself and realize that you are the problem...not the girls. 5) Regarding that materialism thing, the definition of materialistic is "Materialistic describes a person who is markedly more concerned with material things (such as money and possessions) rather than spiritual, intellectual, or cultural values." Guess what buddy, buying stuff does not make women want you. Well if it does, that'll still be a girl who doesn't truly want YOU...she wants your stuff. And while you'll rationalize it in your head that you aren't doing all that to increase your chances at finding marriage at first sight, the truth is that the boat, MacBook, house, truck, bike, etc. do not change the fact that you're still an incredibly immature, insecure, whiny person and that you have some serious issues to handle on your own before you can take on handling faults in a partner. 6)Grow up and get your shit together..geez

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